Pride Mubarak

Guest post by Lina Free

So does Ramadan mean no sex for the whole month? Hello- I’m not that kind of Muslim! Ha ha, I just troubling u girl; I kno the thing- my father was Muslim. Eh heh? Yes, Salahuddin was his name. But is only me outta my brothers and sisters get that name. How come? He was always drunk, never had time for us. But I was the last chile; my mother said he felt sorry by then. Salahuddin sounded just like my grandfather Shaheed. Another ‘fullaman’ yes, but that didn’t stop him from drinking and womanizing. When my grandmother ‘ran off’ her head after he got another woman pregnant the same time as she and had to be committed to the Berbice mad house after giving birth to my father- the last child of eight- Shaheed amended his ways. But by then it was too late, the damage already done. Decades afterwards, when I sat behind him in the masjid, watching him prostrate himself in prayer, all I could think about was why I had to sit behind and not beside him. Stop asking all those questions I was scolded. Just keep quiet and do as you are told. Continue reading

A Week of CODE RED Reads: Housecleaning PMs, Rape as mounting, Caribbean LGBT Activism, Climate Justice and Abortions for Successful Living

Just a look at what we’ve been reading and talking about this week. Remember to email us at redforgender [at] gmail [dot] com to find out how you can involved with us offline.  We are looking for some Barbados-based volunteers to work on exciting projects.

LGBT Rights Activism
VIDEO: Caribbean LGBT activist voices among the strongest in the region right now. T&T-based CAISO and St. Lucian United & Strong among other organisations participating in international dialogue and human rights training taking place in St. Lucia.

VIDEO: “I am a Belizean.” Belize leads the Caribbean on pro-LGBT rights activism. This public service announcement aims to promote tolerance in a society where homophobia is widely practiced. We Are One! In dignity and rights.

Human Rights in Guyana
Guyanese in Barbados to protest against human rights abuses in their homeland.

Misopolis Abortion Rights Campaign
Some of our facebook fans believe that the “Misopolis: Abortions for successful living campaign” misses the mark. It spoofs a Diesel ad campaign in order “to expose the violations of women’s rights that take place in the garment industry”? The hoax was devised by Women on Waves and Women on Web, both non-profit organizations concerned with women’s human rights and specifically with access to safe medical abortion.

One person wrote:

Not a fan of this one at all. Feel it misses the mark and treats the issue a little too glibly. Eye catching for sure though.

One CODE RED member responded:

Back in 2008 ECKO had a “hot girls make great clothes” campaign which featured models pretending to do the sewing, stiching, dyeing, packing etc it takes to manufacture jeans. Each model-as-garment-factory-worker had a persona and customers were encouraged to leave messages for her. And leave messages they did—obscene, sexist, objectifying and CRASS. When I first saw the Misopolis campaign it felt like a spoof of the ECKO campaign. Their website says its a hoax of a diesel campaign. I too feel that the campaign misses the mark. What was ridiculous about the ECKO campaign was that it continued to hide the real faces of factory labor. I think the Women on Waves spoof does the same thing. Garment factory labour remains invisible. I agree with you that the way they deal with abortion also seems too superficial. And too much presented as some form of consumer choice rather than as a woman’s right. Considering how strong the anti-abortion push is globally I worry that such glib treatment will actually undermine what Women in Waves and Women on Web stand for—women’s human rights and access to safe medical abortion.

Gender Insensitive Caribbean Media
Caribbean reporting on violence against women still leave a lot to be desired:
The Demerara Waves report includes statements such as “mounting her”, “feigning pleasure” and graphic details of the alleged assault. The report also states that the complainant said that she would have killed the rapist had she gotten the chance. It also raises the question of why she failed to report the rape immediately. The accused is the Commissioner of Police in Guyana and he has not been charged. Many of the persons commenting on the story say they think the rape accusation is false.  CODE RED reached out to Demerara Waves via twitter but has  not yet received a response.

Climate Justice
Caribbean people are at the forefront of the movement calling for climate change action and climate justice: “What was it that made the critical difference? It was the voice of the Caribbean, and particularly [Grenadian Foreign Minister] Karl Hood’s intervention. But Karl Hood’s intervention was kind of on the shoulders of a really sustained effort on the part of some Caribbean leaders, like former President Jagdeo of Guyana, of people and institutions like the Climate Change Coordinating Centre in Belize – for example, and all of that effort came to a kind of crescendo that night.”

Gender and Politics
The fact that Jamaica now has its first elected female Prime Minister continues to provoke sexist and quite frankly, bizarre comments.  JLP described PM Portia Simpson Miller’s decision to appoint three women to the Cabinet as ‘jobs for the girls’. Three woman cabinet members dismissed as illegitimate, unnecessarily costly excess baggage just because they are women, no, girls! Jamaican scholar Carolyn Cooper breaks down the sexism and old boys’ network logic behind these comments.

Following quickly on the heels of the JLP, Jamaica’s Foreign Minister says “You won’t get away with a woman presiding over a dirty country.”  He argued that visitors to the island may be willing to put up with a dirty JA if the PM is male but with a woman at the helm, the country better be clean, if nothing else. Right, because women, even women PMs are naturally more suited to cleaning. And even if they are not naturally suited to it, it’s their job.

Just a quick look at what we’ve been talking about. Have your say in the comments below and join us online and off!