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A former schoolmate of mine has posted his wisdom on how women in Barbados can avoid being murdered by former or current intimate partners.
Another woman has been killed. A 22 year-old who loved her family, her two year-old daughter, whose baby sister just became a mom. A mothering worker like so many other Caribbean women who supported her family while furthering her education. And who loved make-up. A complex woman like all women. A woman with a right to be. A right to a good life. Her name is Krystal. A name chosen with much love and care.
We continue to fail women. We continue to offer excuses and justifications for their murders.
She had a new man.
She mussee tek de man money.
Yuh want soldier man money? Tek soldier man blows!
She did horning he.
Women does provoke men.
Now the police are reporting that the majority of perpetrators of domestic violence in Barbados are non-nationals. Xenophobia masking misogyny.
The violence won’t end till the hatred of women ends. The violence won’t end till we stop blaming schoolgirls for men’s decisions to rape them. The violence won’t end till we end it. We all have to look deep inside ourselves and unlearn those lessons about the relative value of women and men, about what it means to be a man or woman, about love and what it looks like, about what kind of fate is waiting for us “hot pussy whores”, about whose lives are dispensable.
Let us remember the women murdered in Barbados this year in acts of gruesome, public violence. Let us honour their lives by choosing to do the daily work to unlearn harmful gender ideologies. Wherever we are, whoever we are we can choose to work toward transforming our societies. We can start by speaking up when the men and women in our lives seek to rationalise violence against women. We can tell them violence is never justified. We owe at least this much to the women who should still be with us, to their families, to their children, to ourselves.
Kimberley Hinds, 24
Brenda Belle, 64
Denise Clarke, 41
Caroline Forde 49
Krystal Lovell, 22
A short film on domestic violence and the healing process assisted by the Business and Professional Women’s Club (BPW Barbados) There is some where to go for help. Call 246-435-8222.
Thanks to the wonderful BPW women for sharing this video!
Guyanese social justice advocates reject the government’s support of Chris Brown concert.
According to Stabroek News
The government on Thursday announced that it will be giving tax breaks for the concert, which is organised by Hits & Jams Entertainment, and acting Minister of Tourism Irfaan Ali praised the expected appearance of Brown and said his presence at the concert will be a pull factor for persons to Guyana.
Some activists have argued that Chris Brown should be allowed to perform but the proceeds from the concert should go towards support mechanisms for survivors of intimate partner violence. Others recognise his “right” to perform in Guyana but question the use of tax payer dollars to support his performance.
Some activists have taken issue with the irony that the Chris Brown concert will coincide with 16 days of Activism Against Gender-based violence:
when Chris Brown arrogantly struts on to the stage in December, the nation – being led by the government – will just be wrapping up their annual 16-Day Campaign Against Violence, which begins on November 25, International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women and ends on December 10, Human Rights Day,”
What do you think? Is the Guyana government misguided in supporting the Chris Brown concert?
Is the “decision to bring Chris Brown to entertain Guyana is a slap in the face to every single victim of
domestic violence in country”, as journalist & feminist activist Stella Ramsaroop described it?
Should the organisers of the concert use it as an activity to increase awareness about intimate partner violence and use the proceeds to lend tangible support to the fight against violence against women?
Reports of domestic violence in Guyana, as in many other parts of the region, are frequent and gruesome, with women making up the majority of intimate partner homicides (femicides).
For an extended commentary on why Guyanese activists reject governments financial support of the Chris Brown concert please read Vidyaratha Kissoon’s letter to the editor.
I felt very frustrated yesterday when someone told me that to say “violence against women” is discriminatory, that it should be called “relationship violence”. I tried to point out that intimate partner violence is only one kind of violence against women. There are a range of gendered ways in which women are targeted for violence, not all of which are “domestic”. Erasing the language feminists have invented to describe the harms women disproportionately face is an attempt at silencing women.
I recognise that some kinds of feminism render women as innocent, always already victims and men as always already abusers. Reality, of course, is much more complex. Women are not innocent. Women are not victims. Men are not invulnerable to violence from other men and yes, from women. Many feminists are naming as gendered-based violence men’s violence towards each other. The kind of violence which makes many boys afraid to go to school, which causes many of them to arm themselves and which claims the lives of many, many young Caribbean men.
Gender ideologies structure the lives of both women and men. Men and women produce and reproduce gender in their everyday lives. Both women and men therefore have a stake in ending unequal and harmful relations of gender.
WomenSpeak is running a series of profiles to mark the 16 Days of Activism against Violence Against Women. CODE RED got in on the action with a quick interview with one of Barbados’ feminist activists. In Barbados, murders of women by their male intimate partners typically account for nearly half of all murders.