Guest post by Lina Free
So does Ramadan mean no sex for the whole month? Hello- I’m not that kind of Muslim! Ha ha, I just troubling u girl; I kno the thing- my father was Muslim. Eh heh? Yes, Salahuddin was his name. But is only me outta my brothers and sisters get that name. How come? He was always drunk, never had time for us. But I was the last chile; my mother said he felt sorry by then. Salahuddin sounded just like my grandfather Shaheed. Another ‘fullaman’ yes, but that didn’t stop him from drinking and womanizing. When my grandmother ‘ran off’ her head after he got another woman pregnant the same time as she and had to be committed to the Berbice mad house after giving birth to my father- the last child of eight- Shaheed amended his ways. But by then it was too late, the damage already done. Decades afterwards, when I sat behind him in the masjid, watching him prostrate himself in prayer, all I could think about was why I had to sit behind and not beside him. Stop asking all those questions I was scolded. Just keep quiet and do as you are told. Continue reading
FREE ICT and Social Media workshop for activists in Barbados. Will take place during the Crop Over season. Watch this space for updates and details.
The members of CODE RED for Gender Justice at the UWI Cave Hill Campus have been hosting weekly women’s circles (on and off campus) from October 2013. The circles provide a safe space for women [of all sexual orientations] to have heart to heart discussions on intimate topics such as relationships, love, and family, as well as current gender issues. The members also use tools, such as the peace line activity, to encourage introspection at the circles.
Women have shared tears, laughter, fears, secrets, and love at these circles. Guided by rules to ensure everyone feels respected and receives a chance to be heard, all members that attend enjoy the moments shared in the spaces. Members have used the following words to describe the circles: “Enlightening, empowering, safe, inclusive, comforting and important.”
If you are a woman attending UWI Cave Hill Campus or residing in Barbados and would feel comfortable sharing a space with women of all different sexual orientations, we encourage you to join our circles. Contact damarlieantoine [at] gmail [dot] com, or m.hutchinson1988 [at] @gmail [dot] com to be added to the mailing list.
Below are some photos from our activities:
i crowdsourced the list below in response to Georgia Popplewell’s assertion that soca artists would
have to dig deep into their repertoires to find a song extolling the kind of values Valentine’s Day represents.
While she may have been speaking specifically of this year’s carnival tunes, there’s still a perception that soca artists don’t sing about love. Caribbean music man, Stefan Walcott, had this to say:
Well there are not many due to a space and function of the music. How many Bajan folk songs speak about snow?
Janine Mendes-Franco produced her own list of carnival love songs but it was too short a list.
Below is what my amazing facebook friends were able to come up with (thanks to Patrice & Kerryann who has an encyclopedic knowledge of soca).
Passion by Militant
All Is Yours by Onika Bostic
Dance With You by Machel and Mr. Vegas
Always Be by Patrice Roberts featuring Zan
Only You by Krosfyah featuring Tony Bailey
All Night Long by Donella Weekes
My Girl by Lil Rick
Kerryann also pointed me to other songs not available on youtube: Sweetest Thing by Coppa Dan, Sugary by Keann, Only You by Omar McQuilkin of Electrik.
The ways in which love and romance are scripted can often appear contrary to feminist ideals. I had to exclude one of the suggestions due to its homophobic lyrics. So after you’ve grooved to this playlist you may also want to check out Creative Commess’ feminist soca playlist which got a well-deserved shout out on Global Voices.
Caribbean music is all-occasions music. Enjoy!